“Self-trust is the first secret of success”, said Emerson. It is known that one’s life couldn’t go smoothly without difficulty. Difficulties or frustration are the obstacles on the road to success. Now that we can not avoid these terrible factors, why not be confident to overcome them. Scarlet always said “tomorrow is another day”. Why can not the women say that “Today I meet and fight against the difficulties, tomorrow I will meet the success?” There is a saying that confidence is half the success. Be confident means that you should also be optimistic. Confident and optimistic people
题目：《浊世尤物》对21世纪女性的启示
Scarlet knew the arts and graces of being attractive to man. She knew how to smile so that her dimples leaped; how to walk pigeon-toed so that her wide hoop skirts swayed entrancingly ; how to look up into a man’s face and then rope her eyes and bat the lids rapidly so that she seemed a kind girl with gentle emotion. Most of all she learned how to conceal from men a sharp intelligence beneath a face as sweet and bland as a baby’s. Scarlet’s mother taught her all that a gentlewoman should know, but she learned only the outward signs of gentility. The inner grace from which these signs should spring she now learned, nor did she see any reason for learning it. Appearance was enough, for the appearance of ladyhood had won her popularity and that was all she wanted. She had received proposals from nearly all the young men in the neighborhood and many other places. Scarlet knew which dress would best set off her charms and make her most irresistible to men.
要害词
Melanie was a tiny, frailly built girl, who gave the appearance of a child masquerading in her mother’s enormous hoop skirts-an illusion that was height-ended by the sky, almost frightened look in her two large brown eyes. She had a cloud of curly dark hair which was so stemly represented beneath its net that no ragant tendrils escaped, and this dark mass, with its long widow’s speck, accentuated the heart shape her face, too wide across the check-bones, too pointed at the chin. It was a sweet, timid face but a plain face, and she had no feminine tricks of allure to make observers forget its plainness. She looked-and was –as simple as earth, as good as bread, as transparent as spring water. But for all her plainness of feature and smallness of stature, there was a sedate dignity about her movement that was oddly touching and
有个伟人说妇女能顶半边天，有个智慧的作家说汉子的一半是姑娘。其实，当当代界，唱主角的依旧是汉子，姑娘犹如一座深藏的宝藏，远远没有被挖掘出来。不行否定，陪伴经济全球化，常识经济，我国入世等诸多因素的影响，女性的人生舞台获得了极大拓展，其涵养意识、寒暄意识、家庭意识、乐成意识等迅速强化。她们盼愿社会承认，发挥潜力;盼愿魅力四射，展示自我;盼愿独立进取，事业乐成;盼愿婚姻完满，人生幸福，但要真正成为这样的乐成女性并不容易。本文通过对《飘》中两个典范女性人物的阐明，提呈现代女性可从中进修和警惕的处所，主要是在事业方面可进修斯佳人的创新意识与本领以及自信;在家庭糊口方面可进修梅拉妮对丈夫的信任、尊重以及拥有一颗无限的爱心;在人际来往方面可进修斯佳人充实操作瑰丽的外表优势和梅拉妮拥有的微笑、厚道以及友好立场等内涵的涵养。
Ⅳ. Suggestions on How to Achieve Success in Interpersonal Relationship for a Woman
A. Features and Advantages of Melanie in Gone with the Wind
Today’s society is full of serious competitions. The pressure, as well as the perplexing social situation makes people worried. Women easily get lost or lose heart facing the failure or obstacles or difficulties. Then what can women do or what measures can women take to overcome the difficulties and finally achieve success in business? Let’s have a look at Scarlet in Gone with the Wind.
Nowadays, family life is still important for women. But even women years ago already spent most of their time on the family, there were still endless problems encountering them. So how can people have a harmonious and happy family? Maybe you can learn something from Melanie, the other heroin in Gone with the Wind.
Ⅱ. Suggestions on How to Achieve Success in Business for a Woman
can bravely face the terrible difficulties. When you have thought out a dream or plan you should have the confidence to realize it. Don’t just think every day. Women may dream that one day they will be a rich, elegant lady with fashionable dresses and expensive jewelries. But they seldom put their heart into making them come true. Because they do not believe themselves. Why can Scarlet do everything she dreams of? Because she is a confident woman. Charles Chaplin said “you have to believe in yourself. That is the secret of success”. Nothing in the world is too difficultif you put your heart into it.
B. What to Learn from Melanie
people who become rich overnight. Some one has once said that at the beginning there is no way in the world, but the roads are formed when there are more and more people walking on it. However when too many people walk on the same road, the road disappears. This saying is quite philosophical. Then how to find a new road when there is no way for us to walk? The answer is “to be innovative”!
Ⅲ. Suggestions on How to Achieve Success in Family for a Woman
1. Innovation
